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Posted Sun, 07/06/2008 - 12:37
I've been having this conversation with my women friends for years, and have been shocked by how many of them -- strong, independent, career women -- get a positive case of the screaming heebie jeebies from this word.
Saying you're a feminist means ONLY that you see yourself as an equal to men. Not better than men, not equivalent to men, and not antagonistic toward men, just equal to them. You don't lose your femininity when you declare your feminism.
I've never been smacked on the butt and called "honey" at work, but my mom has, and she didn't forget to tell me about it. And yes, she calls herself a feminist.
KristinDREAM
www.seren.us
www.dreamrescue.org
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| KristinK | Now that Gov. Palin has been Named Senator McCain's VP Pick...
Posted Tue, 09/02/2008 - 19:45
I wonder if Nikki Hardin is rethinking her position on supporting "women candidates because they are women". And if indeed, we as women, are speaking "truth to power" and want to be examples to our daughters, then let's start with the advertising content and mixed messages we are sending them in the publication. I enjoy reading SKIRT, the essays, the local newsy items. But enough already with the endless advertisements for plastic surgery (or whatever the polite phrase is), Botox, Dental work, Teeth whitening, etc. etc. How affirming is this to our daughters? The bottom line is that both men and women can be hypocritical, as well as supportive of women's issues. This is not gender specific. So I believe we may learn that some female candidates may be positive, and some not. What we have at stake in this country is beyond gender politics.
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